Aspasiya Part 1

As my flight neared Athens airport, I looked out my window. 

Beneath me was a barren, dry landscape of rocks, low hills and ocean. There were very few areas of arable land, let alone rich farmland. There were no rivers or lakes. It was a country which at first sight seemed to me more likely to be a place where humans had to struggle just to survive, never mind to think great thoughts and ask big questions……

On top of the tourist sights I wanted to see in Athens was the Parthenon. In this, I was no different to the millions of other tourists who visited Athens all year round. 

Perched on a steep sided, flat topped outcrop in the centre of Athens called the acropolis, the Parthenon dominated the city skyline and could be seen from far distant. It was something h one immediately associated with Athens. 

Constructed in the 5th century BC, there wasn’t much left of the original Parthenon, besides a couple of rows of fluted stone columns. On their own, those columns gave one no idea of the original structure; they were like a few bones lying on a beach which a scientist might inform us once belonged to a dinosaur. 

When the Parthenon was built, the city state of Athens was at the pinnacle of its glory; it was created by a city-state which was turning out so many other masterworks in so many other, different spheres of endeavour. Athens’s rise to greatness began with the birth of a radical new system of government called democracy (derived from two Greek words ‘demos’ and ‘kratia’ and meaning literally ‘people power’). One of the most dramatic consequences of this new system was the creation of an environment in which free thinking could flourish. Men (women were second class citizens) were free to explore new avenues of scientific and artistic endeavour. ‘Truth’ was no longer the monopoly of God. Out of that ancient Athens came the arts and the sciences which we take for granted today including drama, mathematics, astronomy, medicine, history, philosophy, architecture…..the list is endless. 

An artist’s impression of the original Parthenon – done in the late 19th century. 

But first things first: I had to check into the hotel I had booked online in Rotterdam. It was located in an area of Athens called ‘Ommonia’ which was popular with budget travelers because of the surfeit of cheap accommodation, though it had an unsavoury reputation.

I soon found out why.

Emerging from the underground metro station, I was met by a maze of shabby buildings and narrow, traffic congested streets. I walked down sleazy alleys where groups of men – Africans, Arabs, Indians and poor, down and out Greeks – foraged in over filled industrial sized rubbish containers. On small squares people were hunkered down sleeping on bench seats. The place was a chaos. Later I found out that even Greeks got lost in the area.

After a lot of walking around and asking for directions, I finally found my hotel. It had a very small frontage and was sandwiched between shops, cafes and sleazy bars. When I entered the hotel , I was greeted by a bizarre sight: behind the reception desk, under a fluorescent light, was an old lady sitting in a wooden chair reading a bible.

The old lady was very old; her face was as wrinkled as a prune. She was thin and slightly bowed. She was wearing a long loose fitting black dress tied at the waist with a blue sash. Her grey hair was tied up in a long, loose headscarf, the edges of which were lined with a blue-embroidered motif. On the wall behind her was a brightly coloured, plasticized hologram poster of Jesus.

The old lady said something to me in Greek. It sounded like a shrill bird cry. After I shrugged my shoulders, she got up, put her bible down on the reception desk next to an old computer, and motioned for me to follow her down an adjoining corridor. The corridor was poorly lit, gloomy. Half way along, there was a staircase on the left. At the end of the corridor was a dark red curtain. The old woman pushed the curtain aside, opened a  door, and led me into a combined dining/lounge room.

Just what was I getting myself into here?

As if the run-around finding this bloody hotel wasn’t enough!

Directly in front of me was a dining table and chairs and nearby, easy chairs and couches. Everything looked dated. There was a lot of wood, even wood paneling on some of the walls. On my right there was a long wooden counter and behind it, a stove, fridge and sink. Above these was a row of dark wooden cupboards.

In a corner of the room, near an old style polished wooden coffee table and a TV set, was a fat man lying back on a couch preoccupied with his mobile. Flashes of light strobed the dimness. We walked over there and the old lady yelled something.

The fat man looked up, arose, and holding his phone in one hand, introduced himself. He said his name was Ikis. He was in his mid-30’s and had thick, brown curly hair and a boyish face. He spoke very good English and as I found out, he liked talking. I explained that I had a booking. I accompanied him to the reception desk and he checked my booking on the computer. Then he grabbed a set of keys and asked me to accompany him upstairs.

My room was on the top story. 

There were four stories. We began ascending the stairs.

Wasn’t there a lift?

I was tired after all that work finding the hotel and it was a warm day, in the low 30’s.   

The room was nice enough, especially for 25 Euros. It was clean with an attached bathroom. At the end of the room there were two glass doors and behind these, French-louvered doors painted dark brown which opened out on to a small balcony.

There was an old desk fan which Ikis turned on. 


Ikis and I got talking about the hotel. 

‘My family is originally from a village on the Pelion peninsula on the east coast of Greece. We came to Athens in 1980 and shortly afterwards my father arranged to have this hotel built. That was when tourism was really taking off in Greece. My father was a good businessman, but he was also here at the right time. We lived on the ground floor, my sister and I, my grandmother and my parents. My mother and father are dead now. My mother died two years ago. Only my grandmother and I are here now.’

Ikis was worried about the hotel. It had 15 rooms and it was a long way from full. He was struggling. He explained:

‘I need to invest in the hotel and modernize it, but I don’t want to do it now because the income from the hotel is not sufficient to get a loan .’

There was a conundrum here alright.

The hotel was cheap and that was its only positive side. It was old and run down. The fittings were the original ones installed in 1980. The taps leaked, the walls were stained, the cupboards scuffed. The hot water service didn’t work, which didn’t bother me, but it might well bother other guests.  As Ikis admitted, he was no businessman.  

I asked him about his grandmother.  

´Ah! Aspasia!’ he said.

The emphasis was placed on the last syllable ‘sia’ – ´aspa-SIA. 

‘She lost her husband a few years after the war. She came to live with us in Athens. She raised my sister and I after our mother got sick. She fed us and looked after us….I love her very much! She is like a mother to me.´

It was a heartfelt declaration.

 ‘How old is she?’ I asked.

‘ 95.’ 

At this point in time, I didn’t devote a great deal of thought to the rather odd situation of a single man in his 30’s running a hotel with his 95 year old grandmother. All I could think about was how to reach The Parthenon from my hotel early the next morning, which seemed like no small task given how easy it was to get lost in Ommonia. 

Well before the dawn the next morning, I walked through silent streets, eager to reach that famous structure before sunrise and get a few moments on my own before the day’s tourist rush started.

It was going to be a long day: I was about to encounter two remarkable women: one of them high on history’s pedestal – and the other utterly anonymous yet equally as worthy of admiration……


Street scene Ommonia


Hologram posters on sale.



Aspasiya Part 2

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